Guy doesn't want sex?

Question:

I'm an attractive woman- guys are into me- but my guy doesn't want to have sex.



I've got no problem with porn or masturbation... but it really annoys me when a month goes by and we haven't had sex... but I know he's masturbating to porn. When we do have sex, he can hardly get and stay hard- he says he's too used to the feeling of his own hand- and only enjoys it when I stroke him with a death grip.



I initiate sex sometimes... and sometimes he goes for it- sometimes he doesn't... and sometimes I just get tired of asking for it. I've asked him to get viagra, but he doesn't want to talk to his doctor. He ordered some online once, but he says it makes his head too stuffy.



Otherwise, the relationship's fine: we go out and have a lot of fun. I'd hate to lose him but geesh... I'd like to actually have sex once in a while.



We've been together two years and it's only gotten worse. Should we break up or is there hope?



By the way- I'm divorced. I was married for eight years- and my ex husband was the same way. This led to my divorce. how is it I ended up in the exact same situation again?

Answer:

Sorry, but I'd be gone. I need sex Frequently!!!!! If he won't oblige, that's his problem.

1) He can take care of you then you take care of him = that's his problem

2) He should like you more than porn - again, that's his problem