How do I turn my BF on when he's not in the mood?

Question:

Hey guys, I need some help. My bf and I have been going out for three months now. We live together (yes I know it's soon) but the second we saw each other, it was love at first sight and since that first date we have only been apart two days. The only problem is that he is rarely "in the mood" whereas I'm usually down to do it twice a day. He is amazing in every other way so leaving him is not an option. He tells me I'm incredibly beautiful all the time so it's not that I'm ugly or fat. I have tried toys, porn, sex chocolates, getting dolled up, lingerie... I even tried just not bringing sex up at all but nothing seems to make him come around. Masturbation is fine and all but it doesn't satisfy me because I crave him, not my hand. He did do a whole lot of drugs and has only been clean about a year which he claims is part of the reason his drive is so low. But when we do have sex, it's incredible and he is really into it but getting him to want to is the problem. Is there anything you can suggest I do? Any special foods I could feed him or herbal stuff he could take? I can't get Viagra so please don't suggest that. Anything your girl can do to get you in the mood when you're not feeling it? I love him so much and am so turned on by him and I'm just getting so disheartened each time I try to get him in the mood and it fails. Thank you for your help guys!

Answer:

Try getting him when he is biologically ready. Most guys have testosterone peak around 5:00 A.M. on normal sleep schedules so the indivdual wakes up with an erection. You can try ambushing him then and starting off the day right that way.



Another thing you can try is to give him a massage. Just from head to toe. It doesn't need to be sensual but it can lead up to that. By giving the massage you can increase overall blood flow and some of that blood flow could find it's way to his cash a prizes. Maybe not right away but it could just help over time.



Try exercising with him or doing some compitive sports. The exercise will be good for blood flow and competition could spike up his testorone. which could spike up his sex drive.





Here are some foods that you could incorprate in his diet which are stated to be aphrodisiacs



http://planetgreen.discovery.com/food-he...



I've heard Ginkgo biloba is helpful with these issues.



Finally. Since you've only been going out 3 months try figuring out some of his lesser known turn on's which he may be weary to specify so early on.